Thursday, November 15, 2007

The Good, The Bad. and The Ugly

These last 2 months have been very interesting. I really have a better sense now of human nature in general and my family in particular.
It started well enough.

The Good

Mark was on TV because he was refeering a soccer game.
I'm going to be in the paper because of the Jewelry Business.
This prompted Mark to say: " Watch out Posh and Becks!"
Hehe, he is cute.

There was Halloween.

My little sister is now officially qualified to take care of other people's children on top of her own. Congratulations Cilette!

That's it.

The Bad

3 weeks ago my son started to complain about his ankle and calf. Since it wasn't going away we took him to the doctor. It seems that there is a particular muscle there that can become a problem ( meaning it could come back again and again and again). So we gave him anti-inflamatory medication, iced the area after every effort and he tried to be careful.
So, when he was trying to be careful he was rushing with his friends across the blacktop and, this is not very clear how exactly, managed to crash.
He has now a bruise on his knee the size of a football, a bruise the size of the palm of my hand on his hip, his entire right elbow is one big bruise and so is the right temple. The most worrisome was of course the blow to his head since his eye was affected: he had a crescent of light on the side of his vision for a few minutes. His arm was also of concern since it could have been broken. So, emergency room. His arm is ok and his vision came back normal but the doc said to take him to the eye doctor for a check-up.
However, mr T. reports that his ankle and calf are just fine now.
Well, that's lucky.

And I have developed a strange thing with one of my eyes: it looks fine, it feels fine until I put my contacts on. Then it burns, water and become red if I rub. I changed contacts. Nada. The eye doctor thinks it's an allergy. I don't do allergy. I already never admit that I'm sick and to prove my point I work and cram more things than usual in my schedule because damnit, I'm not sick. So, an allergy? I don't think so.
I think it's voodoo.

Which brings to:

The Ugly

Big fight with my mother in law. I used to not be a patient person at all and I've gotten a lot better over the years. And then, after meeting Mark's family I devellopped A LOT of patience. Apparently there must have been a quota. And it was reached.
Maybe she is doing the voodoo thing.
In the meantime, we won't be seeing them for Thanksgiving and it sucks for the kids since they are the only family that we've got on this side of the pond with Mark's sister and her fiance who are going with the fiance's family this year as it was already planned.
Me, however, I'm feeling lighter and relieved. Go figure.

Thank god there is Mika :)

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

coucou!!
merci!! je suis flattée que tu parles de moi dans ton blog!!
oui je suis "apte" pour m'occuper des enfants !! aujourd'hui à l'école ils ont été particulièrement pénibles !! la neige arrive! elle était à Grenoble hier......
gros bisous!

Laurienna said...

Cecile:
Bien sur je parle de toi :). De la neige?? Je t'envoie une figue? ;)

hiro said...

hm,,, That's good that you didn't have only the bad things and the ugly one, you also had the good thing! :) And as for the fight with your mother-in-law, it happens in everywhere in the world. It surely is a problem forever fo women. :(

Candy said...

Well done for your sister!!!
and for the rest... huuuu.... at least Mika's here to remind us Life is beautiful too :)

I can't wait to read the article about your biz! yeeeepeeeeeeeeee!!!!!

And about your son, I hope he's doing more than ok now! That must have been stressing!

(sending you the most positive vibes for the coming week!)

Laurienna said...

Hiro:
Thankfully it's never all too bad...or too good (for most people). There is a balance always I think.
It's interesting this relationship with mother's in law. We do love the same man after all. Share children/grandchildren. I wish things would go better and would be more cooperative and less of a "fight".
Did you get along with your mother-in-law?

Candy Froggie:
Thank you for my little sister, she really deserves it :)
I have meant to thank you for posting Mika's you tube videos. I had not heard him before that. It's very strange how good I feel when I hear his music. I mean, more than the usual, you know.

Thomas gave us a big scare, that's for sure. God. Good thing children are resilient.
How is your bum, by the way :):)
That must have been scary too.

Thank you, thank you for the positive vibes, very much needed!